Chris & Yuko Wilkins

Newsletter 2004-11 Print E-mail

Dear Friends and family,

We hope you had a nice Thanksgiving. We do have some turkeys in the town of Suong . I stuck with hot dogs this year, and rounded it off with a Science Fiction comedy-- all of which I was thankful to have.

This month's newsletter is a departure from our usual fare. I meet so many people every week--a lot of interesting beginnings. I thought sharing a few vignettes would give a view into what our life is like here.

Disneyland opened when I was five years old. Shortly thereafter, a TV show began with the same name. Later it became "The Wonderful World of Color." I waited with anticipation for this show every week. There was only one thing about the program I didn't like. There were some shows that took two weeks to view. The words "to be continued" at the end of an episode meant days of waiting to see how the story would end. I guess we all like to have a happy ending to a story; we're not content with a difficult or even happy beginning. Working in Cambodia , I've lived in two cities, Phnom Penh and Kampong Cham. I've been here about two years. As a result, I haven't had the time to witness an ending to a lot of episodes in the living dramas I see. Our stories take longer to unfold than TV programs do. Nevertheless, I have seen some good beginnings lately.

Last week I was jogging on the bridge that spans the Mekong river. As I started out I saw an elderly woman walking slowly. Her clothes were a bit dusty. Everyone's clothes here are dusty, but if someone's clothes are very dusty it may be that they are very poor. As I finished my run, I saw her again. She was just beginning to cross the bridge. In her hand she had a small bundle of vegetables. I always carry a little money for drinking water as I'm usually thirsty when I finish. I crossed the bridge and put the palms of my hands together in the sign of respect when meeting someone older. I held out my hand and gave her a thousand Real note, about twenty-five cents. It is enough for a couple of days rice. I said to her "Prea Yesu srolan nayuk!" which means, "Jesus loves you." She looked a little bewildered. Seeking alms is not rare here, but someone seeking those to give alms to is. I have no ending for this tale. Only Father knows.

A few weeks back I was buying magic markers for the church at a shop run by a woman named Phalin (Pauline is close enough). A young lad was watching me and smiling. I'd seen him many times collecting recyclables. Many boys and girls in town do this. They are another dusty lot. I mistakenly thought he had come to our Children's Summer Camp. I gave him twelve cents for some lunch (500 Real). I saw him again last week and he ate with Sokhlin, my translator, and I. His name is Dahm Ti (like the drink, tea). I invited he and his friends to come to our English and Japanese classes every week, and the medical clinic we are having next week. On two occasions now I've shown the church to a total of a half dozen boys. They sounded very interested in coming to our Sunday service. How does this one end? The houses in Kampuchea ( Cambodia ) don't usually have doorbells. We have a doorbell on our gate. Some of the children in our neighborhood like to ring it and run off. It is annoying, especially when they hold it on for a while before fleeing. Yesterday I had just come home and was still in my car when one little blessing came by and thought to test my patience. He didn't run far enough or fast enough. I walked behind him and called him aside. I told him I was going to have a baby at the house, and that if he rings the bell the baby won't be able to sleep. I thanked him, and left. That night upon returning home from the post office and checking the medical team's reservations, he was waiting by the gait to greet me. He and friends giggled at me giggled at the dog and giggled at anything that moved. If this wasn't enough, I knew I score big when he gave me a peace offering of four used plastic cups! You won't believe this, but as I write, someone rang the bell and ran off. If you know how this one ends, don't ring me!

The street looks like a mix of an Heironomous Bosch painting and Charlie Brown's kite eating tree. It is kite flying season here. Children use video tape as the tail for their kites. The situation has quite a potential for disaster when draped on utility poles. My lights went out one night and my pole was swathed with the wraiths. My temporary eclipse was, however, a simple matter of a intransigent fuse.

Another tale takes place in the village of Andohng Svai (Spring of/with Mangoes) set at the edge of an old French rubber plantation. We drove on a bumpy road for two and a half hours to get there. Actually, only two hours were bumpy. Relatives of Sarah , our church secretary, live there. We were invited into their home. We took off our shoes and climbed the stairs to go in. Under the house are many sacks of grain. They have an old style grain thresher (they are common here). We drank some tea. The pot was kept hot by placing it in a hollowed out coconut (the husk remains, the nut is gone). The patriarch was pleased to receive a Christian comic book of the Gospel

In this village we went first to the leader's home. We had to wait for half an hour as he had to be retrieved from the karaoke bar. His wife shared with us during that time that her husband was seeing another woman and drinking a lot. She was broken hearted. She prayed with us to give her life to Christ while we waited for her husband. When he arrived he gave us permission to hold meetings. He also requested we give him a phone card. This is the standard offering of respect (bribe)in such transactions.

As we left this village, the patriarch of Sarah's family came over to shake my hand. It was a outgoing gesture, and very positive. I was delighted. This story will be continued next week when we hit the bumps again.

A few days ago. I saw an elderly man walking on his knees. I gave him a couple of sandwiches. A Khmai man riding a motorcycle saw this exchange and thanked me for showing the man kindness. All this and Heaven, too!

Our last tale is about getting permits for the medical team that is coming from Hong Kong . We need the village leader, the police, and the commune leader (head of a district of villages). Phone cards were legal tender again, however, this time I gave a Gospel tract with each one. I called them the phone card to Heaven. This was my second time to see one of them, last time I gave him a Bible. So how will these stories, these living dramas turn out? To be continued...

Well, concerning the recycle boys, one is named Dahm Te. He and his friends did not show up for the medical team. At least our paths did not cross. I still hope to get a Khmer class going next year for these little ones. Sometimes when they collect things, the dogs from various shops will hassle them.

As for the Fountain of Mangoes, we went back again. We had two teams of folks sharing. Our group only went to one house. As we began to talk people from many homes gathered. Our hosts said there were Christians in their family but that they weren't very nice. They then informed us that they would become Christians if we built them a school. We declined their generous offer. After that we had a song time with the children. We stopped on the way home to buy vegetables, and then the truck wouldn't start again, It was an electrical problem so I thought a fuse had gone out again--I didn't have any with me. Fortunately the battery cable was loose. Wed stopped at several small villages along the way to meet people. We'd buy a bag of chips for four cents and I'd show them a picture of my lovely wife. What fun. One village was Muslim. One of the men who went with us is a former Mormon. I'm going to his home soon to explain the "Way" more clearly.

The secretary who helped us at the village center nearby brought his wife to the coffee shop. We had met there a couple of months ago. At that time, however, I didn't know he was the secretary. They invited me to dinner.

The medical team had an outreach group with it. Several teams went into Kampong Cham in the outer communes. A lot of people gave their hearts to the Lord. Grace was certainly full on those days. Next week I'm going to meet an American who works with the Cham tribe, a large Islamic group here in Cambodia .

The most important drama for me is Yuko and Baby W. The baby is now two kilos. I took a picture of my receiving the news on computer phone that Baby W. is a ............................ BOY ! We are, of course, delighted. I will go to Japan for five weeks. Arrival on the 21st of December. Yuko will return with me at the end of January or in the middle of February after I have returned.

These are continuing stories we can all have a part in directing. Please ask the Producer for a successful conclusion for each character. Your part as supporting cast is essential.

Break a leg (figuratively),
Love, Chris, Yuko, qnd Baby W.